Speak Now or Forever Hold Your Pee

Fantasy: The Ever-Suffering Mother sits on the couch with her NEW, BEAUTIFUL, FANCIFIED laptop, typing away at her Great Work of Young Adult Literature, putting on the finishing touches for her PUBLISHER (this is a fantasy, after all. Indulge me). As she types, she listens to the sweetest sound in the world: “Mamam! I went poop in the potty! I’m going to clean everything up now, wash my hands, and give myself a sticker! Don’t worry about anything. It’s all taken care of!”

The Ever-Suffering Mother sighs contentedly, shifts slightly to accommodate Clarkie, who naps peacefully on the Ever-Suffering Mother’s feet, and calls back, “Nice job, Sweetie! When you’re done, come in here to give me a hug before you finish washing the dishes and mowing the lawn!”

Here is our potty-training lexicon:

  • Go, go, go, go, GO!
  • Poop and pee go in the potty.
  • Tell Mama when you have to go.
  • Big girl underwear!
  • Just like Mommy and Daddy.
  • You may have a sticker after you wash your hands.
  • Good job, Z!

Your potty is covered in stickers. You have pull-up diapers. You even have big-girl underpants with some obscure (to me) cartoon character on them.

You tell me (sometimes) (when it is convenient for putting off bedtime) when you have to go.

So what’s the next step? What’s the next thing for a (lazy, often-inconsistent) mom to do? Am I supposed to keep on keepin’ on? Because if that means “keep on cleaning up pee in Z’s favorite spots in the house,” I don’t know if I’m ready for the Great Potty Training Experience.

Or is that “experiment”?

Everything with you, my precious, willful, sparkling daughter, is an experiment.


  1. Vicki · July 14, 2010

    Love the stickers!! I have no words regarding potty training except “sorry no one told you how utterly terrible it is” – because that’s how I feel now that D is turning FOUR on Sunday & we’re STILL not 100% “there” yet. Oy. 😦 So, in your fantasy, what type of laptop do you have? I’m just starting to search for one myself…

    • bethhull · July 14, 2010

      No particular laptop in this fantasy. It just has beautiful, colorful graphics on the outside. My fantasy laptop may not actually work, even. It might just be a prop 🙂
      Let me know what you get, when you get one!

  2. Rachel Cunningham · July 14, 2010

    Ah, so THAT’S what those stickers were for!

    Best of luck, hon, and hang in there!

  3. Randi · July 24, 2010

    Been there, done that. Just remember that you are breaking a “habit” of two years…and if that doesn’t seem so long, just remember that it is her lifetime, thus far. It will happen!! Love

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